Families of Fraternity & Sorority Life (FSL) Students
While at Carnegie Mellon, your student will explore many involvement opportunities outside of the classroom. We want parents and families to feel informed about the enriching experience that your student may find through their membership in a fraternity or sorority. Below we have listed some of the most common questions we receive from family members of our FSL students.
Why should my student join a fraternity or sorority?
My student is considering joining a fraternity or sorority. How should I advise them?
- What is expected of fraternity/sorority members?
- How will membership impact my academic success?
- What leadership opportunities are available to students as new members and active members?
- Does the fraternity or sorority require members to live in the chapter house? If so, for how many semesters?
- How much will dues cost? What will dues cover?
- What values does this organization promote?
- Is the organization officially recognized by the University? If not, why?
- What is the time commitment?
- What is the process to join? How long will it take for me to be initiated?
- What kinds of activities does the chapter participate in on campus?
- How does the chapter participate in Greek Sing, Booth and/or Buggy?
Will my student need to live in their fraternity or sorority house? How much will that cost?
The cost of living in a fraternity or sorority house varies by organization but is typically comparable to the cost of an on-campus double for upperclass students.
I never joined a fraternity or sorority. How can I learn more about it?
Check out the national umbrella organizations that govern our fraternities and sororities for more information. We also encourage you to explore the individual fraternities or sororities your student is interested in.
I’m concerned about hazing. What is Carnegie Mellon’s policy on hazing and what should I do if I am worried about my student’s safety?
A concern of many parents and families is whether their student will be hazed in order to join an organization. Hazing is against Carnegie Mellon University policy and Pennsylvania state law. Thus, there is zero tolerance for such behavior in fraternities and sororities at CMU.
If you have questions about the joining process your student is a part of, please contact the Office of Student Leadership, Involvement, and Civic Engagement at 412-268-8704 or email. You may also report concerns through the CMU Ethics Hotline or to CMU Police at 412-268-2323. If you have immediate concerns for a person’s safety, please call the police.